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I swear, please remind me never to write a mission statement because CLEARLY I am not able to inspire anything more than a 3 year downslide of emotions, confidence and the ability to actually tell the difference between the top and bottom half of my body. Seriously people...I SWEAR I had a waist. It was just here, like....okay...so it's been awhile but I have pictures...it did exist!
I went and took a walk tonight at the park and seriously contemplated jumping over the safety railing and into the bayou. But if it didn't result in serious bodily harm by being eaten by ravenous crocs that were just waiting for a fatty to hurl herself over the rail...all I'd have to show for my failed attempt to "end the madness" would be a short swim in freezing water followed by a walk of shame and possibly pneumonia and or flesh eating bacteria.
And thus the cycle of mediocrity would continue.
So instead of taking the deep six I decided to bring it on home, sipping a chai and lay here in my comfy bed contemplating the meaning of my life. I had just about resigned myself to the idea that I would make it to sleep before midnight when my hacking teenager comes strolling in talking so loud that our next door neighbors could have heard her conversation clear as a bell. It pissed me off to no end. Not only did my "plan" become an epic failure now my children have decided that they no longer need rules and can come and go in the house as they please, making their own bedtimes and having no regard for the fact that people have jobs that they need to get a goodnight's sleep in order to be at peak performance. I mean, I am totally NOT talking about me because once again I fall into the unemployed and complete failure category. But there is still Jon for us to hang our families hopes and financial dreams on.
Do you see why maybe I should REVISE the original plan to oh, I don't know...start with the words "be gainfully employed individual who sets and enforces rules and boundaries"??
But even that line seems as though I am aiming to high. Maybe I should focus on keeping my expectations low therefore ensuring that the possibility of dissappointment is less likely. Instead of stating that I will go to the gym 5 days a week, I should instead say that I will make a definite effort to walk to my mailbox to retrieve the mail. Lower expectation...better chance of success.
I think I will sleep on this and see what other winning suggestions I can come up with. It's a lot of pressure...I hope I don't crack.